At one time or another we all came across a guy who was bad for us. Fighting our feelings is no way to go about it.
The law of attraction states "What you think persists." The more you think of what you do not want the more you attract that. The more you tell yourself not to think of someone the more you will think of someone.
It is okay if you meet someone who is not your type. You have to accept it and move on. Let the feelings fade on their own. Forcing feelings to fade never leads to anything good. The feelings will get stronger and deeper the more you try to push them away.
Do not expect to change him. If you want a guy who is sweet than do not expect the bad boy to be sweet. He is who he is and you are just going to have to accept that. If you really want a good guy than move onto someone good or start going places where good guys are. Despite what society tells you, there actually are good guys.
Spend less time around that person. The less time you spend around that person the less you will think about him.
Date other guys. There are a million guys in the world. Do not settle for some guy who will not treat you right.
At the right time you will meet that special person. In the meantime focus on yourself and never settle.
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The above article was writter by Jennifer Panaro.